A GREAT TIME FOR A HOLIDAY
Holidays are a blessing to some and others dread their arrival. Why do we have Holidays? Surely celebrating a big event like the Fourth of July or Christmas is definitely time to bring out the decorations and prepare meals fit for a king or queen. But does everyone feel the same - are there always smiles and anticipation? Holidays were created as a respite from our day to day workabout world. Even our founding fathers realized that pioneers and settlers needed that "time out". All through the generations, holidays have served as a means of bringing family, friends, neighbors, and assorted critters together to share a meal, watch a parade, listen to a band, and have fun.
But not all holidays are met with the same amount of enthusiasm. Many people do not relish the idea of gathering with friends or family and would prefer to just keep on working or doing whatever it is they do. This is fine for them, but for others this would eliminate a very vital part of our lives. People celebrate for a lot of different reasons. Patriotism, religious belief, civil remembrances, and ethnic backgrounds are just a few aspects in our lives that denote a special date as a holiday.
But there are personal or family holidays as well. We have birthdays, anniversaries and we take the time to denote a particular day as "special". All holidays do not have to be big, expensive and include a hundred or more people. They can be on a scale from a grand event that includes entire cities, towns, or even countries, but they can be between two people, a family, or just a few select relatives or friends. We can celebrate and mark a holiday for whatever we choose.
Of course, it is always fun to plan and anticipate the major ones (Christmas, Easter, New Year's, etc.) There are food holidays that will brighten our menu plans and give us a chance to try out different foods and styles of eating. (Chinese New Year, Snail Week, Taco Day, etc.) We have remembrance days (Memorial Day, Labor Day, etc.). Its always nice to pay respect to those who have given more than their share to preserve the lifestyle we maintain and the freedom we enjoy. If you dread holidays, maybe you are just looking at them through "past" glasses. If there were unpleasant moments when family or friends gathered, a specific holiday that triggers a personal loss, or tragic event, then feel free to reflect on whatever the memory is, but also give yourself the right to pay your respects and then move on to the day.
What happened with the "cousins" on the last family reunion may never happen again or it may surface each time they get together. Don't let these unfortunate incidents mar any future celebrations. If need be, if the loss or memory is perhaps too painful, celebrate in your own way or in a simplified way. Of course, remembering our family, or friends is a definite tribute to them, but a far greater one would be to go on and move ahead. Tuck away their accomplishments, your attachment, or feelings into your heart, and know that they are safe and forever.
Then enjoy whatever celebration is at hand, and participate. At first, you may want to take it slowly, test the water, and find your own niche in whatever is going on. As time passes, be braver and attempt a step further and a little more involvement. Before you know it, life will again become a time of enjoyment and holidays will not be a dreaded affair. Holidays are not only a break from our work world, but an insurance policy for the future.
We have the past to look upon and learn from, and the present gives us the time to slow down, reflect or remember, plan, and move on into the future. Many people shy away from holidays because they are expensive and they usually end up paying for gifts two to three years down the line. Don't fall into this trap of outdoing and outbuying. Nothing is more appreciated than something you have made or created. Store bought gifts and decorations are fine in their own right, but the joy of making your own with family or friends is chalked down to creativity, imagination and care.
Bake your own celebration goodies, or prepare a meal that everyone contributes to and you have the makings of a great time. Let kids make their own musical instruments or party favors and the day will be grander yet. As for gifts, give from the heart, not the pocketbook. Have a coffee lover, then buy a great coffee mug and fill it with "goodies". Simple, personal, and definitely from the heart.
Have a quilter, artist, writer, secretary, doctor, bus driver, teacher, or any other interest or occupation on your list? Devise a fanciful way to celebrate who they are. If you knit or are creative, then by all means - be! Use your skills and talent to make gifts that are hand-made. If you lack in the "craft or skill" category, then imagination is free and abundant. Think of a gift that takes into account who this person is and what fine point in them that you find special. A simple gift box or basket with items related to their hobby or interest is always a heartfelt gift.
A picture or book that they may have admired, or create a collage of their favorite items, laminate, and they have a coffee table tray or dresser tray to spark a smile or laugh for a long time. Decorations should also be personal and do not have to be perfect. Let children help, as well as everyone in the household or office. Not only will you get great decorations, but a wonderful time of laughter, conversation, and downright fun. Holidays are definitely a time of celebration.
Make your own up for your private personal events, and make note of the major ones. Write them on your calendar, plan, and make way for great moments, memories and heartwarming times. Don't let the past press into the future. It has its place but so does today. The future will be better for everyone if you lend a hand, make a gift, string some homemade garland, and enjoy yourself.
Your smile, your laugh, and your effort will go a long way - don't be selfish and let the world do without. Without you, there will always be something missing. Let's have complete, wonderful holidays to look forward to. ENJOY! ? 2002 June.
Do-It-Yourself Murder Mystery Games by Haley Productions Give Holiday Parties A Unique Twist.
Party planners looking for a way to spice up their holiday party are calling on Susan Haley, Creative Director of Haley Productions' Interactive Challenges. Haley Productions designs do-it-yourself murder mystery dinner party games for large groups (of 15 or more) and offers immediate online delivery of their complete murder mystery game kits.When asked why someone should consider a murder mystery for their Christmas party, Ms. Haley replies, "December is a very stressful time of year for most people.
They need an escape, even if just for a little while, from their everyday world.
An escape that will stir their imagination, their sense of humor and their curiosity.
Haley Productions' murder mystery games will help any party planner create a fun, entertaining Christmas party with an unexpected twist.
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"How To Effectively Use An Autoresponder"
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? 2004 http://www.Team-Schuman.comFirst of all let's define what an autoresponder is and what is does.An autoresponder is a feature that allows you to generateautomatic customized responses whenever a specific e-mailaddress receives an e-mail.Typically, this feature is used by people when they areaway, notifying the sender of an e-mail that the recipientis away and will be back on a specified date.Alternatively, it can be used as a business tool to sendspecific responses with information, such as pricinginformation if a customer sends an e-mail to a specificaddress, i.e. sales@yourdomain.com.Here's 10 effective ways you can use an autoresponderto improve your time management and increase sales.1. Collect names and email addresses. I use an autoresponderon my website sign up form to capture customer informationfor follow-up with my weekly newsletter2. Publish a price list of all the products and servicesthat you offer.
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Santa Claus with his Bag of Gifts on the Internet
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Christmas Day, as most of the country witnessed an unprecedented white Christmas, many shoppers found that their savings soared with the spirit of giving at the new online store ? Santacoupons.com.
Santacoupons.com is promoted by a group of Silicon Valley entrepreneurs whose personal online shopping experiences inspired them to set up an online store that has put together the best in deals, savings, coupons and gifts. The singular vision behind this site is to provide an enhanced shopping experience to the average online consumer. Eliminating the usual frills, pop-ups and advertisements that clutter other coupon sites, Santacoupons.com guarantees consumers a quick, useful shopping experience and loads of savings.A beta version of the site elicited a very warm and welcome response. Jeane Love, a busy IT executive and a diligent homemaker with two toddlers, living in Houston, Texas is one of the many thrilled and satisfied shoppers that Santacoupons.com is happy to...
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Personalized Music CD With Your Child Name In the Lyrics & Hand Drawn Pencil Sketch From Your Kids? Photographs
Mychildmusic.com is a distributor of personalized music CDs for children, with the child's name in the music. Original compositions featuring your child's name will dazzle and delight your child. You will be amazed how much your child will enjoy singing and dancing to these fun songs containing their name. Professional vocalists have sung every single name.The quality of the music is what makes mychildmusic.com different. The music on each CD is a mix of tempos teaching your child rhyme and verse.
They are a fun way to teach children speech and music. The CDs build your child's self esteem through the affirming lyrics. Mychildmusic.com has currently 3 CD titles available: (1) You are my friend (2) You're an angel (3) Jesus loves you. Each CD is personalized with your child's name throughout the lyrics. To further personalize the CD, your child's name is printed on the CD label, together with a three-line message of your choosing.
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Personalized Music CD With Your Child Name In the Lyrics & Hand Drawn Pencil Sketch From Your Kids? Photographs
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